15 Clear Signs an Aries Woman Secretly Likes You

Have you got your heart set on a strong and confident Aries woman? She might seem like she's always in control, but even she can't help but leave clues that she likes you. In this article, we spoke with professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism and psychic astrologer Stina Garbis to learn all the signs that an Aries woman has a thing for you. All you have to do is pay attention to how she acts around you, and you'll know if romance is in the stars!

How to Know an Aries Woman Likes You

Psychic astrologer Stina Garbis says an Aries woman is straightforward and bold, so if she likes you, she’ll tell you directly. Some other clues she’s into you include teasing you, challenging you to competitions, and showing off to get your attention. She’ll also flirt with you and spend lots of time with you.

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She teases you.

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She might pick little fights or mess with you if she likes you. Because Aries women are really strong and independent, they can sometimes be resistant to being vulnerable in relationships, says Eyedealism.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} What she really wants is to meet her match—someone who will go head-to-head with her and not back down when she asserts herself. Do that, and you might just capture her heart.
- For example, if she knows you're a fan of a football team that recently lost, she might go out of her way to poke you about it and talk about how shoddy your favorite team's defense is. Fight back by boasting about your team's winning record.
- Garbis agrees, saying, “If you poke at an Aries lightly and flirtatiously, and make them a little mad,” it will make them “think about you a lot, and… may make them go wild with wanting to see you again.”^{[2]
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Meet the wikiHow Experts

Angel Eyedealism is a professional astrologer with nearly 30 years of astrology experience. She specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography.

Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer with over 30 years of experience doing astrological and tarot card readings.

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Her competitive side comes out around you.

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An Aries woman typically loves sparring with someone she likes. According to Garbis, “If an Aries is fighting with you, then they fiercely love you.”^{[3]
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Expert Interview} An Aries woman loves to win, but that doesn't mean you should just let her win. If you're not performing at your best, she'll likely take offense to that. When she comes out on top, expect to be teased about it for weeks on end—or at least until the rematch.^{[4]
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- She's typically going to challenge you at something she already knows she excels at. If you happen to come out on top, you can tell she likes you if she immediately demands a rematch.
- Because an Aries woman has strong opinions and loves to argue, she’ll probably challenge you to a lot of debates. This is a sign that you’re interesting and she thinks you worthy of conversation. Just hold your own and challenge her right back—she’ll love your competitive spirit!

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She shows off in front of you.

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An Aries woman wants to be the center of your attention. Garbis explains that, “Aries loves attention and they will go where they find it.”^{[5]
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Expert Interview} If an Aries woman likes you, she’ll make sure that she’s getting the recognition she deserves. For instance, she might show up in a bold outfit that highlights her best features and confidently boast about her most recent achievements when she talks to you.
- Garbis adds that “if [Aries is] not seeking any time or attention from you and they have nothing else going on, that may be a sign that their interest is wandering or that they are getting bored.”^{[6]
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- An Aries woman wants to know that you’re confident and self-assured, too. To win her over, don’t be shy about looking your best and telling her what you’re good at.

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She has a twinkle in her eyes when she looks at you.

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Her interest in you is probably painted across her face. The typical Aries woman has a hard time hiding her feelings—one look in her eyes, and you'll know. She also tends to blush easily, so if you're able to bring a flush to her cheeks, you have all the signs you need that she's into you.^{[7]
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- The bold Aries woman usually won't shy away from making eye contact either, so this might just be one of the easiest signs to pick up on.
- Be bold and meet your Aries lady’s stare. This is a great way to communicate your interest back and flirt with her.

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She starts conversations with you.

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An Aries woman goes out of her way to talk to the person she fancies. Aries can get bored easily, so it’s a good sign if your Aries lady seeks out every opportunity to talk to you. She likes people who can challenge her worldview and make her think differently. So, if she asks you for your opinion or perspective on something, or even offers up that she finds you fascinating, you’ll know she’s into you.
- Aries are known to be big talkers, so make sure your conversations are an even give and take. When she’s talking, give her your full attention so she knows you’re interested in her, too!

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She wants to do things with you.

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Aries is always on the move and chooses her companions carefully. Because she's perfectly capable of doing things alone, thank you very much, Garbis explains that “if an Aries is spending time with you, that's another indicator that they are interested in you.”^{[8]
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Expert Interview} If your Aries invites you along on her adventures, it's a sign that she likes you and respects you enough to believe you won't slow her down, says Eyedealism.^{[9]
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- Don't be surprised if she invites you to do something sporty or active, like going for a hike, especially if you haven't yet spent a lot of time together. She's trying to figure out if you have what it takes to hang with her.

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You see her enthusiastic, playful side.

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The typical Aries woman is a child at heart with energy to spare. On the outside, the Aries woman is a force—determined and focused. But, she never loses that inner sense of playfulness. If she likes you, it'll brim up to the surface.^{[10]
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- For example, if you're walking together to a café, she might tag you on the arm and shout, "Race you there!" before taking off down the sidewalk.

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She touches you a lot.

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Aries ladies typically express themselves physically. This is a woman who uses a punch on your arm or a squeeze of your hand as punctuation. If she's into you, you'll notice that she sits or stands close to you and touches you every chance she gets.
- Because of her competitiveness and activeness, don't be surprised if she asks you to play a contact sport with her, such as basketball.
- Aries women are also likely to be tomboys, so she might favor touching you the way two guy friends would touch each other—a lot of play punches and back slaps.

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She showers you with little gifts.

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The typical Aries woman is generous and wants to give you things. There doesn't have to be an occasion. If she likes you and she sees something that reminds her of you, she'll pick it up for you. Did you mention liking a particular TV series or movie? She'll get practically any little thing that has an associated character or phrase for you.
- Don't worry too much about getting things for her in return—she's not keeping score. This is just a way that she shows her affection for you.

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You get compliments from her frequently.

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Aries women don't usually like to acknowledge things they like. There's that avoidance of vulnerability again. Yes, complimenting someone else makes an Aries woman feel vulnerable, because she's essentially admitting that you might be better than her at something. And for an Aries, if you're not the best, you might as well be the worst. So if she's throwing compliments at you left and right? She definitely has a thing for you.
- This is an especially powerful sign if she happens to compliment you in the heat of competition. For example, if you're playing a little one-on-one basketball, she might say, "Nice block" after missing a shot.
- Of course, Aries women love to be complimented back. Garbis says Aries’ phrase is “I am,” so focus on giving her compliments that tell her who she is, like “You are so strong” or “You are amazing.”^{[11]
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She flirts with you.

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An Aries woman flirts heavily with someone she’s interested in. Bold and passionate Aries tends to be pretty flirtatious in their day-to-day interactions. But if an Aries woman is turning up the heat and leaving you without a doubt in your mind that she’s flirting, says Eyedealism, you’ll know she’s into you.^{[12]
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Expert Interview} She’ll be straightforward with her interest, so expect some daring, suggestive comments and playful innuendo!
- Boldly flirt with her back to attract her. Match her witty, provocative comments and tease her a little to awaken her competitive side.

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She tells you how she feels.

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An Aries woman is typically open and honest about her feelings. According to Garbis, Aries have a natural courageousness to tell you how they feel,” and “can not…keep things secret for very long.” So, “If an Aries likes you, they will find ways to tell you.”^{[13]
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Expert Interview} If your Aries woman has accepted that she feels a certain way about you, she won't make you guess—she'll straight up tell you.
- Keep in mind that this honesty cuts both ways. If you do something she doesn't like, or if she decides she doesn't have feelings for you anymore, she'll be just as quick to let you know she's not into you. While this can be hard to hear, it’s ultimately a good thing that she’s so direct, because it means you can trust her not to play games with you or lead you on, says Eyedealism.^{[14]
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Her feminine side starts to come out.

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If this typical tomboy shows up in a dress, she probably likes you. With her active lifestyle, it makes complete sense that an Aries woman usually doesn't take to delicate clothing or fragile accessories. But when she succumbs to romantic feelings, she might find that she wants to indulge her softer side.^{[15]
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- The strong, competitive Aries woman often views softness and femininity as weakness, too. If she's willing to reveal this side of herself to you, it means she trusts you not to take advantage of her.

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She’s vulnerable with you.

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Aries women are confident and independent, so being vulnerable with their inner feelings and emotions isn’t something they love doing. But, even she wants someone to lean on and share her deepest thoughts with. If your Aries woman starts opening up to you about her dreams and fears, or gets super sweet with how she feels about you, she definitely likes you.^{[16]
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She lets you take the lead.

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Aries women only give up the reins for people they really like. An Aries woman who isn't taking charge of a situation often feels pretty antsy, so if she invites you to take over, she thinks you're pretty special. It also means she trusts you not to mess anything up—maybe even to do as well as she would if she were in charge.
- Don't let this go to your head, and don't take it for granted. Even if an Aries woman really likes you, she's still probably going to feel more comfortable being in charge most of the time.
- For instance, show her that you know how to take charge by planning exciting dates or by offering to solve a problem she’s dealing with.