Q&A for How to Get a Girl You Like to Like You Back

Give her some space. If she’s not replying, it doesn’t necessarily mean that she doesn’t want to talk to you. She could be busy, or she might have left her phone in another room. Regardless, try to wait a day or so before messaging her again.

If she doesn’t seem interested, try giving her some space. She won’t feel positively about you if you’re repeatedly trying to force a conversation.

Be confident in yourself! Think about all of your positive qualities instead of focusing on how the girl views you. The next time you see her, try starting a conversation! If she still doesn’t seem interested, give yourself some time to heal and sort out your feelings.

First of all, be prepared for the fact that it might not be possible. But, if she’s open to talking to you, sit down and let her know that you still have feelings for her and want to give things another chance. Listen to her openly without getting defensive, since she’ll probably want to talk about her reasons for not wanting to keep the relationship going. Talk to her about ways you can work together to improve things going forward. If she’s not interested, respect her wishes so you can focus on healing and moving on.

It depends—what kind of teasing is it? If it seems good-natured and friendly, it could mean that she likes you, either as a friend or something more. If the teasing seems mean, then it’s possible she’s just trying to bully you or get a reaction out of you.

The best way to know is if you ask her! But you can also look for little hints, like whether she smiles at you and makes eye contact a lot, looks for excuses to spend time with you, or makes an effort to start conversations without you having to make the first move.